The Good and The Bad
Okay, so this is a sorta rant. Over the holidays a really good thing and a really bad thing happened. I mean, it wasn't so bad that it was drastic, it just made me feel bad about myself and what I identify as. Okay, it's both the good and the bad....I work at a small restaurant and I meet a lot of people, one day I was working quite late and a women came into the restaurant, and asked for a waiter. Of course I was happy to take her order, since I didn't have any tables to take care of. Anyway, when I got there, she kinda noticed that I was a female earlier in my life, I honestly don't know how, probably by my small feminine features. But she wasn't rude about she still let me take her order...the thing that hurt me the most, was when I gave her the food, and she asked me to sir with her. Now that's not the bad thing, the bad was...She started saying things that were uncalled for. She asked questions that I could answer, but it got worse. She said according to society and many people, I'm not a man. I'm just a lesbian, who is very masculine. But she used the word Gay, she said I was a Gay women. It hurt to be called a women, no one had called me one since I came out, so it was nerve wracking. I didn't say anything to her, I just got up and walked away. When I gave her the bill, I wrote a letter to her and attached it to the bill. I couldn't say these things out loud, but I wrote them down. I told her that "I am a man and I always will be. Even on my drivers license it says m for male. And if I was Gay, I would be dating a man. I like women, yes, I do. But I'm a man and no one can change that, not even you. I'm sorry that you feel the way you do toward me and people like me. But as like others I wish you happily holidays, and its all on me," Not only did I give her a free meal, I even held the door open for her. She didn't look at me, she just said sorry, and hugged me. She wished me a happy holidays, and thanked me for paying for her food. That night it changed for me, that people can change the way they feel about others. If you just tell them how you feel, don't be a coward. Express yourself, and stand up for not only, but others like you.
Why should it matter whether we want to be are feel like the opposite gender? Its not like it affects who you are. Why should it matter whether or not we love the same gender? As long as we find love in this world, it doesn't seem different to me. Why should it matter whether or not you fit inside the social group? Because I know I don't. What should matter, is all the hate and discrimination towards the Lgbt community. What ever happened to all men are created equal? Did we forget our natural rights? Just like you 'normal' people. We have the right of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. But it seems like our rights are being taken away and burned to the ground. Will you stop and ask yourself, what about all those people who are bashed and bullied because of who they are? Will you ask yourself, what about all those closeted people who are too afraid to be out, because of the shame? I hope you do. Because YOU can make a difference in the world, and change peoples minds. But YOU yourself need to change your mind, and think. Why should it matter? We're all people, right? Created equal? So please, take a stand. For all we know, you can start a change in this world and make it better for the Lgbt community.
Why should it matter?
I'm told I can't be a man, because what's on my birth certificate. And I can't act like a man because I have the brain of a women. I'm told I wouldn't find peace or happiness in the world. Why should it matter, what I am? The people don't care of what's on my birth certificate, or what's in my brain. I honestly believe that I have more peace and happiness, not only with myself, but with others because of who I identify as. I am a male, always have, always will be. So don't let people tell you what you can and can't feel.
Society tells me I'm wrong for loving my own sex. They say: "It's not natural" and "God doesn't approve." And I suppose society now speaks for God?
And what if I choose not to obey?
What if I love freely.
Whomever my heart leads me to.
This makes me a sinner?
What if I choose not to conform to the strict tyrannical rule of our freedoms society has opposed on a community they neither recognize nor care for.
And I'm the sinner?
Why is he amazing? WHYYY!
girl walks in holding hands with her gf, she is introducing her to her mom.
girl: mom I want you to meet my girlfriend
mom: so you're a lesbian
mom: then what are you?
girl: in love
Never be afaird to come out!!! Be yourself!!! LOVE who you are....:):)
Wow!!!! I am in love with all these coming out posts